Sunday, 13 April 2014

The Art Of Living Better!


While I was travelling in Metro today, after a long time! I noticed so many mothers with their kids on them. YES! On them! :)
And then, I saw a kid screaming for no reason. And that diverted me to all his cuteness, his expressions. I was all into him..fallen in love with his little hands and his little toes which rested on his mother's lap.
YES! It was him! A boy! Boys are lovely when they are kids. I don't know what happens to them when they grow up?? :D
Remember when you were a kid how easy it was to just let things go, to live without worry, when the biggest concern was to complete the homework so that we are allowed to go out to play in the evening.
Life of a kid : love surrounds them.
Somewhere along the way we lost that charm, that innocence and we became assholes, cheaters, liars, counselors and experts!
And there are some Real Jerks too who think they know everything about the world and others are born dumb!
But somewhere Deep down in our hearts, we still feel that childhood innocence sometimes.
So Now,
Lets just let go off the bullshit..
People who bother you, People who comment on your Body, people who comment on your nature, people who bitch about you, people who feel you are crazy, people who comment on your maturity, people comment on you loudness or shyness ( it could be anything), People who have no other work but to judge!
I mean, WTF, Get a life!
One thing that I realized, when dealing with Life is knowing that there will always be those who will judge us, even if they don't know anything about us.
Let's learn to accept that we'll be judged by others, because NoOne is Perfect.
Though, I feel I am perfect. Well, that's my thought and that's what matters more. Right? yeah right!
:)
I do not judge anyone. I accept the person they are , in real, because, then it's easy to go along. No One has the right to judge you. People hear stories, make up their own , assume and gossip! But they can't feel what you're going through, they aren't living your life!
You know what? I use to write my ideas in a private document for a year before I worked up the courage to start writing publicly!
So, Never live Life  in fear of disappointing others, because no matter what, at the end there would be someone or the other who'll be disappointed.
There are 2 choices.
You can either be JUDGED because you did something or IGNORED because you left your talent inside.
Where only the things I want to happen, It happens!
I know how to make it happen.
It's a Magic.
Magic of Belief! Try it out! :) Kids know this magic! :)
So Let's just forget about all that gives Stress or all that makes us Sad!
Focus on how you feel about yourself. Life is meant to be Happy.
YESSSS!! Happiness is the key to Life!
So, here's that time when our imagination is free to run wild and we aren't insecured about the Reality!
And What's Reality?? Some Jerks? Chuck them out!
Here's are some things to be learned.
1. Learn to live alone first.
Don't be scared to walk alone or eat alone. Don't let anyone's negativity affect you. Keep doing you know in your heart is right. Because when there is peace inside. Nothing else matters!

2. Change But Change for good!
Every time you'll get chances to change your life. Change for your Better!
Learn to make decisions instead of excuses.

3.Feel free like a Bird.
We live in an independent country. ( I agree I flunked in History, still I remember quite a things) LOL

4.Forgive! (and forget, like a kid).
Don't close the book, just turn the page. Bloody Hell move on to the next level.
Have a Heart to forgive, it will make you stronger.

5.Be Kind.
There are kind people in this world too. I adore them. I adapted this quality of being kind from them. Adapt Good!
Because, everyone has their good and their bad!
( forget the perfection concept here for a moment :P)

6. Smile.
Smile to heal the pain.

7. What else?
Any suggestions??
OK! Get Drunk! :D

P.S-- Where there is love, there is no judgement.Where there is judgement, there is no love!
P.S.S-- It's alright not to know all the answers! :)

10 comments:

  1. Luv u so much ....dunt thnk too much

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  2. AMEN TO EACH AND EVERY WORD.
    I have learnt to live alone, but I need a companionship of a certain someone :P
    And you flunked in history? I nearly did too! :D

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    1. Heyy! Thankyou :) and companionship of a certain someone is accepted :) that is an exception :P
      I hated history! :D

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  3. I agree it's d peace inside which matters.....smiles all around
    Lovely:)

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  4. Wow! What an article! It's incredible! Blew my mind off! especially that line about people becoming dumbasses and pretending that they know about everything! I really wonder how do people muster up courage to shelve their useless opinions on us. It sometimes feels ridiculous because you know, you never do that kind of thing to other people, so you expect some civility from them in reciprocation. It is kind of frustrating. Your points made some sense. And the last one of getting drunk justified your title ;) LOL!
    I have bookmarked this post! I'll read it once again whenever I feel low :-)

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  5. Thankyouuuuu! It means a lot to me :) your appreciation makes me feel on top of the world :)
    Hahahha! Oh God! The justification, am laughing my lungs out! :)
    And Thankooooo sooo muchhh :)

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  6. I really feel pity for those people who thinks that they know everything and the others are just dumbass. I feel very sorry for them because they don't know what they are missing by living in their own world where they think that whatever they know or think is right.
    Judging other people is a human nature and no one can change it but bragging your judgement about others to others is a bad thing. There are nice people and there are some who are douchebag and assholes.

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    1. Yeah right! and Thankyou for agreeing with me :)

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