Happy Birthday to my Brother, who turns 17 today! :)

I have debated all morning long about writing this post. I have so many feelings of love and gratitude for my younger brother, I am not sure if I can convey what I actually want to, but i'll give it a try!
Happy Birthday Brother!
Guess who loves you?
Your Sister! Have a wonderful Birthday! I know you are having a Blast on my money! But It's okay for today! :D
I'm not exactly sure when you grew up but I see that you have all the strength and humor that it takes to be a good human being.
I don't know how it happened but you turned 17! It seems like only yesterday that you were tiny enough to hold.
You have stood by me and with me in so many different ways throughout the years.
From making sure If I am back in the house after sneaking out and asking me on many disasters I have put myself through.
And my reply would be " to just shut up and do your work! Don't try to be my elder brother! I'm the elder one, always remember that!"
And you know what?
I'm lucky to have you, I'm grateful :)

So, You're finally turning into a mature man. Now you understand how annoying you were?:P

I remember the time how excited I was when you were born after months!
You Fat Ass! You took the heart of everyone in the family, bloody took all the attention from me..
But, I'm glad Mom and Dad didn't listen to me when I said to return you from wherever you have come from or send you back to the hospital atleast!
I never could have made my childhood without you!
I remember the time when you fall off the balcony because you saw something, may be, an alien? :P
And also, I never forget this, a picture is moving in my head while I am writing this! alright..continuing..
When I use to stand outside your class in primary school and waiting with those heavy bags on my little shoulders,for your class to end so that we can go back home together because I was responsible for whatever happens to you, because I am the elder one! I mean what the? :Phuhh..
That moment when we laugh on the inside family jokes, when no one knows What's going on? :D
I love you more than you know. You have grown into an amazing young man, because you shave now :P
A brother like you deserves the best!
And see how blessed you are? I am your sister!
I love how we don't need to say, that I'm your favorite sister!
You know how difficult it is to shut me up..so here's some more!
1.I still remember I gifted you a chocolate and a remote control car on you Birthday, because at the end I knew you're going to share that with me and eventually the car would me mine, because I was fond of cars more than Barbie Dolls! :P

2. This is about the time when we were kids and I hated to tag you along with me when I went out to play, because you were a kid and a responsibility, so I would lock you up at house. I was EVIL.

3. The time when there use to be no electricity and we had no inverters at home.We use to lit up a candle and sit on the door step, hand in hand, waiting for mom and dad to come and save us, thinking that there is someone else in the house. LOL
The two darpoks!

4. And the time, when nobody was home, except you ,me and twinkle (our cousin), I got my right hand fractured because of my over confidence, You cried more than ME!

5. You were the most talented brother because you would help me study! I know, it's funny, but whenever I studied, I made you sit beside me and tell you all the stories of history and geography. (now you understand Why I flunked in History? :P)
And you took interest in all that crap and one day, you grew up and stopped listening.

6.We both loved watching Cartoons. And also you made fall in love with spinach Because of Popeye!
Remember? That's so raven, Zack and Cody? I miss them because We watched  these shows together!

7. We've had so many wrestling matches on our bed when as a rule, I use to won, because I am the elder one. And when you grew up, we stopped those matches!

8. Long time! I haven't read your private messages and chats! LOL But I am always shocked to see that you write such wonderful things to girls, and then you say, We're just friends! :P

You know what? I wanna growwwwww upppp once againnnnnnnnnnnnn :D
So! Happy Birthday my little brother!
AND!
LISTEN!
Do me a favor!
Please pretend that you're reading something really touching.
Maybe, even wipe away a tear and then call me and say , It was Beautiful and you didn't expected this! :)

P.S-- Happy Birthday to the world's most wonderful brother.. :) God Bless you!
P.S.S-- Dear Brother, Do text me some good things about the blog, if you want more money! :)

The Bad World Out There.. Lets Spark it!

I found that this Bloody world has the worst cases of fear. I din't knew about any other world, I use to be in my own world!
Anytime, you turn on the T.V, something bad must be coming up anywhere! And parents go all out in doubling up the protection. Children are constantly over protected from the world.. from germs, from strangers, from sexual attackers, at every corner.
Everyone is out to get you. We just see every possibility for something bad to happen and try to prevent. isn't it?
I am one of those glowing, blond people that wants everyone to believe that this world is a beautiful place to live. I want you to look at the world, look at the trees, look at the sky, look at the stars and see how great and amazing everything is! I mean to say that everyone has some good in them, that if we look deep enough, we can see how glorious every freaking soul is and at the end of the day we all deserve icecreams just for existing.
But, we can't deny the fact that,
The world is horrible, ugly and a disgusting place. Not only that, it's getting worse.
In all the time nothing absolutely terrible happened to me. I have never been robbed or beaten or tortured or anything like that..
Oh..while writing I just recalled one incident that took me to the days, when I started college! A biker snatched my handbag. Everybody in the market watched the show. Complete shock! I don't know what came in my mind and I just sat in the auto passing by and told him to follow that route.
And Guess What?
I caught him on the next Red Light! I was thrilled. I still have that bag with me. :D
I took the keys out and slapped him twice, called the police, though the 100 number did not worked, you must be knowing why? Whatever, I called the PCR.
Shit Happens!
Some people call it luck. But where I come from, the saying is : Every Man makes his own luck.. and Woman too! :D
So It's all about the EFFORT!
All of a sudden I was starting to have this positive view.. Rather than fooling yourself .. Deal with it!
Darkness is not everywhere! Rather than causing depression,lead a happy life. Just because there are few bad people out there doesn't mean everyone is out to get you!
I'm alert of what's happening around. I'm a little doubtful at first if a stranger is being too helpful.
It's not fear. It's being careful and looking at the world logically while keeping an open mind and being positive.
We should make ourselves stronger to be able to seperate the evil from the good.
The world may not be good, but come Let you and me spark the world! :)

P.S- I am not going to ruin my sunday watching News next time!
P.S.S-- My brother just asked me the topic for the blog and adviced me to write something on mosquitoes,a funeral speech, huhh..there gonna die today! He's on with the HIT Spray!

The Art Of Living Better!

While I was travelling in Metro today, after a long time! I noticed so many mothers with their kids on them. YES! On them! :)
And then, I saw a kid screaming for no reason. And that diverted me to all his cuteness, his expressions. I was all into him..fallen in love with his little hands and his little toes which rested on his mother's lap.
YES! It was him! A boy! Boys are lovely when they are kids. I don't know what happens to them when they grow up?? :D
Remember when you were a kid how easy it was to just let things go, to live without worry, when the biggest concern was to complete the homework so that we are allowed to go out to play in the evening.
Life of a kid : love surrounds them.
Somewhere along the way we lost that charm, that innocence and we became assholes, cheaters, liars, counselors and experts!
And there are some Real Jerks too who think they know everything about the world and others are born dumb!
But somewhere Deep down in our hearts, we still feel that childhood innocence sometimes.
So Now,
Lets just let go off the bullshit..
People who bother you, People who comment on your Body, people who comment on your nature, people who bitch about you, people who feel you are crazy, people who comment on your maturity, people comment on you loudness or shyness ( it could be anything), People who have no other work but to judge!
I mean, WTF, Get a life!
One thing that I realized, when dealing with Life is knowing that there will always be those who will judge us, even if they don't know anything about us.
Let's learn to accept that we'll be judged by others, because NoOne is Perfect.
Though, I feel I am perfect. Well, that's my thought and that's what matters more. Right? yeah right!
:)
I do not judge anyone. I accept the person they are , in real, because, then it's easy to go along. No One has the right to judge you. People hear stories, make up their own , assume and gossip! But they can't feel what you're going through, they aren't living your life!
You know what? I use to write my ideas in a private document for a year before I worked up the courage to start writing publicly!
So, Never live Life  in fear of disappointing others, because no matter what, at the end there would be someone or the other who'll be disappointed.
There are 2 choices.
You can either be JUDGED because you did something or IGNORED because you left your talent inside.
Where only the things I want to happen, It happens!
I know how to make it happen.
It's a Magic.
Magic of Belief! Try it out! :) Kids know this magic! :)
So Let's just forget about all that gives Stress or all that makes us Sad!
Focus on how you feel about yourself. Life is meant to be Happy.
YESSSS!! Happiness is the key to Life!
So, here's that time when our imagination is free to run wild and we aren't insecured about the Reality!
And What's Reality?? Some Jerks? Chuck them out!
Here's are some things to be learned.
1. Learn to live alone first.
Don't be scared to walk alone or eat alone. Don't let anyone's negativity affect you. Keep doing you know in your heart is right. Because when there is peace inside. Nothing else matters!

2. Change But Change for good!
Every time you'll get chances to change your life. Change for your Better!
Learn to make decisions instead of excuses.

3.Feel free like a Bird.
We live in an independent country. ( I agree I flunked in History, still I remember quite a things) LOL

4.Forgive! (and forget, like a kid).
Don't close the book, just turn the page. Bloody Hell move on to the next level.
Have a Heart to forgive, it will make you stronger.

5.Be Kind.
There are kind people in this world too. I adore them. I adapted this quality of being kind from them. Adapt Good!
Because, everyone has their good and their bad!
( forget the perfection concept here for a moment :P)

6. Smile.
Smile to heal the pain.

7. What else?
Any suggestions??
OK! Get Drunk! :D

P.S-- Where there is love, there is no judgement.Where there is judgement, there is no love!
P.S.S-- It's alright not to know all the answers! :)

From sister to sister : I love you!

If you are one of those people,especially the girls, who are lucky enough to have a sister,then, you will understand what I really mean! :)
One of the luxuries of writing the blog is that you can publicly declare things!
(She has no idea I am writing this).
Nothing in the whole world is better than having a sister! When I am messed up and stuck in some bloody situation in life, she is the one who picks me up,and carry me to the next destination and sometimes Vodka is complimentary! ;)
It is just fantastic growing up with someone like her, someone to lean on, someone to count on!
She knows me inside out, every bad thing, every good thing, every worry I've had, every celebration I've had. She is my midnight companion. She and I have late night 'Love you's' and maybe that's the reason we're still single LOL.
She can figure out my smile even in the dark. She is a teacher, well, she fits in the grandma category, When you press a start button, she'll provide you with all the teachings in the world, and then you'll forget where the stop button is!
                                                 

                                                            (chakna and daruu)
Last time, the only thing that saved me from the lectures was DAruuu! She was drunk! Well, it's nice to see an elder sister drunk and the little one behaving maturely LOL!
YESS! I do have a recording, but that can't go public :P
I miss you! Bloody you! I Sometimes, I feel that you're the reason I am alive for!
I wander, How do people make it through life without a sister?
We have laughed uncontrollably and we have cried ourselves to sleep!
We laugh at the fact we both seem to have the same freakish problems and I can go to her knowing that no matter what comes out of my mouth, she will never love me less and I will never lose her!
I feel secured! I am really grateful :)
I know, I'll never be alone!
she knows how crazy I am,yet, still she is proud to be seen with me in public!
I can't remember if I am the good sister or the Evil one! But If you would just do what I tell you to, I wouldn't have to be bossy!                                                                           
But you know what DeeDee?,
You are like an underwear,always near by me!                                                        

One more...
You are like a condom, always protecting me!
One more...
You are like viagra, always lift me up when I am down!
I can feel your laugh while reading this! :) You FAt AsS! Love you! See you sooooonn :)
We are Sisters!
If I am mad at someone! You are mad at them too!
End of story! ;) :D

Here are some signs of CrazY sisTers! (Well, I could probably say It's ours ) :P
1. Your favorite nights are staying in with each other and Drinking Togetherrrrrr(errrrr).

2. You adopt their shit list as your own.

3.The things you laugh about would make sense to absolutely no one else.

4.It doesn't matter how stupid it is, you actually do reference your wedding speeches for each other and how your kids will grow up.

5. Your parents sometimes ask about them when you call. ( I don't realize how the get to know about our planned and even unplanned weekends).

6.No matter how much time has passes, when we meet up, it's all lovely and hilarious as ever.

7. No topic is off limits, esp. Food!                                                        

8. You would adopt some of her Dialouges and mannerisms. (Crack).        

9. You don't have to do anything to have fun. (Well, we just need Good Food).

10. Occasionally, You get sentimental and tell them What's really inside! :)


P.S-- Sometimes, being a little sister is even better than being a princess! :)
P.S.S-- Salary will be credited to my account tomorrow! Come Home :D