Sunday 27 July 2014

The Crazy Souls Forever! :)


Besties are like soul mates! I guess, we must have tagged ourselves in the spiritual world itself, before entering the Earth!
We have been through a lot together. We have helped each other through a bunch of shits, celebrated each other when something good happens, spent time arguing over really dumb things!
They know everything! Things that are embarrasing and things that can get me in serious trouble. LOL
Things that can only be understood by besties! :
1. Insecurities.
You put on a happy, strong face in front of the entire world. Everything is good in Life, great work, great food, great life! They know the actual truth and are not judgemental.
2. Mood swings.
Feeling low at work?? Gloomy mood?? It can be predicted! They know how to just cheer you up and not just food!
3. What a Break means?
Grabbing a coffee/Tea becomes code for going to sit and chat about everyone and everything for the next 20 mins. Bye.
4. The dark side.
Right from the time when you're drunk watching the sky and the stars and talking philosophical shit to the time when you randomly laugh ( and its just not a laugh) , a laughter and then being the most calm!
5. Actual tolerance to alcohol.                                                              
Whaat?? Did somebody say Vodka??
They exactly know what you drink! They exactly know what drinking means sometimes!
Well, if they aren't going to let me drink at work, then they shouldn't let fucktards work here! :P
6. What we really think of most people?
Most people probably think we like them, but we know exactly! The double eye roll behaviours, lol, the nuances of my behaviour are crystal clear to them :)
7. Shit happens!
LET ME RUN! In crappy situations, I always need their input first before I face anything with my boss or anyone. And they know how crappy I look in such situations!
8. Wierdness!
They are totally cracked up but still bear ( i wish i could write BEER) with my wierd obsessions, like Retention! (Mr. Lalit-- This one's for you!)
How completely normal it is to scream at each other and then laughing the next? LOL
They all know about my spiritual beliefs and kindness! And all the really, really stupid questions and opinions we have on worldly affairs, no one can imagine!
9. Love-Life!
They are the only people who know how much time I spend composing every wierd text I send to my crush.
They understand everything about my love life, from the new crush who broke my heart to the Man of my life, who is still lost! Can anybody find him please??
10. The Food!
They know that I eat dinner twice at night!
And, When I attempt to cook, it's not always a disaster! If one cannot make good maggi, doesn't mean one can't make great food! I don't like maggi :P
11. Double meaning!
Sense of humor that can only be understood by them. And the every stupid question I've ever had about sex!
12. Are we dating?
Rumors! Everyone thinks we're dating!
Why can't people grow up?? Why didn't their mothers swallowed them when they were born?? I mean... Whatever!
13. Crazy stories!
When I have an important exciting story to tell I have to re-tell it 5 million different times. And the people around find me wierd. But that's okay!
14. Creativity!
We are creative people! devised creative nicknames for practically everyone in the office.
15. When madness Strikes!
One can get mad at anyone but things get resolved easily. There are definately times when they gang up on me but I know it's really just out of love. They know the limit when can I burst out crying!
16. Adulthood.
We know we're adults and gossiping stopped being cool quite a few years ago. But How can we not comment on what my dear seniors did today? :D
17. The BET!
I love winning bets!
18. Don't Leave me!
When even one of them are on vacation or absent! It feels as if you have been abondoned.
Besties are the main reasons for showing up to the office! Without them all I have is the Evil thoughts and Why my boss is not grateful for my work?
Because when my Boss can't see it,Am grateful my besties totally gets it.
19. Am glad I met you all :)

P.S-- We can make a great reality show! :D                                   

Friday 18 July 2014

Dear Pop,


First things first, I Love You the most! Growing up, I idolized you. This is untold but felt. It is a shame I never told you this. Never ever in these 22 years. Not that I just realized how wonderful you are. I always knew it.
Thankyou for being there when I took my first steps in the world though I don't remember the ride on the scooter to the hospital, I was still inside my mother! :P
Didn't we have the most fun while growing up? You always treated me like a boy, gave out all the love one can give out to their kids. I might be selfish but i take the pride when I say I love you more than momma.
After a point of time, I don't know why we stopped talking. We both got busy for each other , I guess.
But now, I want to Thankyou for yelling at me, even when I screamed that I hated you. You don't deserve those cruel names and the silent treatment, when I was in 9th grade.
Well, I had some problems with you being over-protective at times being a teenager but now I understand after getting out of home, I consider myself to be well brought up with all the love given. Pop, you grew up with me!
You and I had differences and yet you tried walking in my shoes and let me chose my way.
You tried to reason with me, argue with me and gave up when you were wrong.Your willingness to go out of your way to help me. And not even just math homework, but from my icecreams to my clothes because I was too little to know how, and checking under the bed for monsters and… okay, especially the math homework. (And sometimes I am too snot-nosed and stubborn to say thank you, so here : THANK YOU.)
While growing up, I realized you have added life to my years. Even through the worst parts of growing up, you've always loved me.
You know? I enjoy talking to you at random topics and I love the gossips and the laughter and the fights on the dinner table!
I love to hear your stories of the past about your life, about your struggle, about your wife!
Your advice weighs more on me than anyone else's. I always compare my crushes to you. I don't know how I measure them up.
I love those moments when we take each other's side and this lady- (yes the one below in the pic)
gets so annoyed and will constantly give the side eye, and it's hilarious.
The best part is we never judge each other.
you are the best person to travel with. With this , i mean Let's have an outing!! :D
There has always been this scenario, when I ask for a puppy!! Atleast one time in Life, Don't over think it and say, YES!
You have always taught me the value of money and Time! I understand now though I already suck you dry as a teenager and now on my wedding day! :)
Someday, Let me hold the wheel. I will always remember when you let me drive with you. I won't take the car to office :P
In the last 22 years, I don't remember the presents you gave but I do remember your presence! :)
No matter where I go in Life, who I get married to, how much time I spend out of the house with friends, you'll always be special.
Thankyou for guiding me into becoming the person I am now.
Thankyou for telling me that a lot men in the world are not worthy of my love and attention.
Thankyou for showing me exactly the kind of man who I deserve to marry. Thankyou for being exactly who you are to my mother.
In short, Thankyou for everything!

With Love,
Your grown up daughter! :)

P.S-- Life happens pretty fast! Let's cherish every moment! :D :)